We have been getting lots of private questions: these questions are very personal to those that ask them but also very relevant out patients and readers world over. to this end we have decided to share some of these questions and answers with without reference to the individuals.
Q: Can I get herpes from a sex toy?
A: The short answer is: probably not. However, in medicine, nothing is black and white, so there’s always a remote possibility that something unlikely can occur.
Ideally, you shouldn’t share sex toys – just get your own! This also goes for other intimate objects like razors or whatever can pierce your skin or going into you. I once had a patient come in with a common bacterial skin infection called folliculitis under her armpit. I wouldn’t have thought much of it except she casually mentioned that her partner had the exact same infection…on his scrotum. When I asked if they were sharing razors, she said “I’m not sure – I just grab whatever is in the shower.” Not a good answer. I told her that they should have their own razors and they should each have two – one for upstairs, one for downstairs. Your mom may have always told you to share, but in this case, don’t.
But when it comes to herpes, the circumstances would have to pretty specific. The partner with herpes would need to rub the sex toy on an open sore, and then immediately (within seconds to minutes) rub the toy on someone else’s skin. Then, there may be a chance that the herpes virus could spread, but there would have to be a lot of fluid involved, as well as an open blister. For the most part, herpes doesn’t live for very long off of the body or on inanimate objects.
When it comes to sex toys, you should practice good hygiene . Toys made of silicone, Lucite, glass, and metal are the easiest to clean, and mild soap and warm water will usually do the job. As long as they don’t have electrical components, you can also boil toys made of silicone and Pyrex or run them through the washing machine .
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